The Top 10 Tips for Communicating or Speaking Before Introverts
Category: Business Communication Skills (AR97)Originally Submitted on 7/3/2003.
1. Don't assume the introvert is uninterested.
S/he may just be taking time to process information.
2. Plan opportunities beforehand to let the introvert get to know you and build credibility.
3. Communicate in writing whenever possible, including email.
4. Don't put the introvert on the spot, asking for opinions or participation or try to draw them up onto the stage.
Don't ask them to get up and move around the room or change seats.
5. Don't interrupt them and don't allow others to be interrupted in their presence.
6. If they give you any personal information, keep it strictly to yourself.
7. Introverts convey important information with lowered voices and only if they mean it. Listen carefully so you don't have to ask them to repeat it.
8. Don't crowd their personal space by coming down with a microphone and getting to close to them.
9. Allow plenty of time for them to prepare an answer.
10. Don't use small talk and don't repeat yourself.
About the Submitter
This piece was originally submitted by Nancy R. Fenn, The IntrovertzCoach, who can be reached at parklanenancy@hotmail.com, or visited on the web. Nancy R. Fenn wants you to know: Nancy assists introverts in positive self expression and consults in marketing to introverts as well.
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