The Top 10 Things I Have Learned About Relationships, Part I

The Top 10 Things I Have Learned About Relationships, Part I

Category: Relationships, Relating, Couples (BB220)

Originally Submitted on 7/12/2000.

Here are some lessons and concepts learned by me, my clients and friends in the process of attracting and creating great relationships. If you get, truly get, any one of these and apply it, you will see an immediate improvement in the quality of your relationships.
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1. It's your job to educate your partner how to treat you so that you feel loved.

2. Communication doesn't mean talking. It means sharing.

3. Infidelity is the surest way to destroy a relationship.

4. Generosity is rarely about money or things. It's mostly about heart.

5. What people do to you is rarely about you and is almost always about their unresolved past - don't take it personally.

6. Until you resolve your past, you are not free to have a future.

7. Until you realize that a great relationship is created by who you are being, you won't have one.

8. Until you love yourself enough to take care of your needs, no one else will.

9. If you feel empty, a relationship will most likely make you feel emptier.

10. Compassion for your partner goes a long way to getting what you want.

This article was originally published by Coach Rinatta Paries in The Relationship Coach Newsletter, a weekly e-zine for people who want fulfilling relationships. For singles, the newsletter will help you attract your Mr. or Ms. Right. If you're in a relationship, you will learn to create more closeness and intimacy with your mate. To subscribe, go to www.WhatItTakes.com

About the Submitter

This piece was originally submitted by Rinatta Paries, Master Certified Coach, CoachU Graduate , Relationship Coach , who can be reached at Coach@WhatItTakes.com, or visited on the web. Rinatta Paries wants you to know: With 9 years of coaching experience, Rinatta works with singles and couples in how to attract and sustain a healthy, loving, fulfilling relationship
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