The Top 10 Questions to ask someone with whom you do not get along well.

The Top 10 Questions to ask someone with whom you do not get along well.

Category: Relationships, Relating, Couples (BB29)

Originally Submitted on 10/24/96.

1. What is t that you don't like about me? Is this something that I can change?

2. What have I done to really disturb, annoy or anger you? Was it deliberate?

3. What is it that I see in you that reminds me so much of myself?

4. What can we do to resolve our differences?

5. What is the value in building a relationship with each other?

6. Is the relationship worth it to BOTH of us?

7. How will we know that the relationship is healing/working better? What's the evidence?

8. Do you not like me or do you just not like my behavior?

9. If you could change me with a wave of the wand, what would you change?

10. Can we just agree to not be friends vs being upset with each other?

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